As soon as a disagreement starts, couples should seek counseling. If conflicts arise within the first year of marriage, they should take couples therapy before consulting a lawyer. It is self-evident that members of the family and lawyers will take sides, whereas therapists would not.
When each of you participates in a session of couple counseling, it usually helps. Even if only one of you attends, it may be of some assistance. In any case, sessions will be conducted both together and individually.